Relationship Test
Are you in a controlling relationship? Take the test.
- Do you not see friends because of his/her jealousy?
- Are you frequently accused of things you haven't done?
- Are you constantly blamed for arguments or problems, and is everything said to be your fault?
- Do you feel like you can't ever "win" in a situation?
- Does your partner always want to know what you're doing and who you are with?
- Are you constantly criticized about your body and looks?
- Have you had lies told about you or been humiliated in front of your friends by your partner?
- Are you told how lucky you are to have him/her, since no one else would ever want you?
- Does your partner threaten to hurt you or others if you end the relationship?
- Have you become secretive or hostile toward your parents because of this relationship?
- Are you protective of your partner when he/she mistreats you - do you rationalize their behavior or feel that factors in your partner’s life make him or her less responsible for his or her actions?
- Have you ever been grabbed or shoved by your partner?
If you've answered yes more than twice, it's important to realize that these behaviors are signs of an abusive relationship. Although sometimes it may not seem like it, there are people to talk to. Talk to a friend or family member, or call Waypoint to help at 319-363-2093 or 800-208-0388.